Solidarity
2% of incoming fees is spent on various grassroots projects and social movements. Predominantly to initiatives that have something to do with intimacy, gender and sexuality. I also support organisations and movements that work on climate change, human rights, anti-racism, peace and sustainable agriculture. Below is an overview of the organisations and movements that will benefit from your contribution.
Accessibility
I offer a social fee for those who can’t afford my regular fees. A healthy and sustainable experience of intimacy is a human right. In the future I want to lower my social rate so that I can reach even more people. You are free to support me with a donation that I can then use to reach a more diverse group of people. Click below to donate directly through an online portal.
Intersectionality
I see it as my duty as a citizen of the world to be critical and aware of my privileges as a white highly educated person passing as male in a rich country. That constant critical reflection on myself and on everything that goes on in society is therefore always present in my work. With this I want to work intersectionally and offer my intimacy work as inclusive as possible. I also remain aware of possible blind spots and am always open to your feedback.
Sustainability
I choose sustainability as much as possible. I purchase sustainable products that preferably last a long time and are ecologically responsible. I choose organic, seasonal and local products for myself but also as catering for my workshops. In my daily life and work I use the 'slow' principle. I eat 'slow' food, I travel 'slow' and avoid plane travel, I like to live and work 'slow' with enough space for free time. I bank 'slow', opting for a local and sustainable bank.
“When you reach out and touch other human beings, it doesn’t matter whether you call it therapy or teaching or poetry.”

Audre Lorde
Projects and Movements
- Aditi vzw: Advice-information center that facilitates accessible sexual services for the elderly and people with disabilities.
- Mamas for Africa: Supports Congolese women and girls in their fight against (sexual) violence and exploitation.
- Utsopi: Supports and represents sex workers. They work for the decriminalization and recognition of sex work in Belgium.
- Een Hart voor Vluchtelingen: offers a warm welcome to starters in need with primary care assistance. Think of a giveaway shop, reception, and programs providing practical support.
- Gents MilieuFront: is a regional environmental organisation from Ghent that aims to support the environment and sustainable mobility through positive actions.
- Merhaba: Unites and empowers LGBT+ people with a migrant background.